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Women or Men : Who are more important



Women or Men

Would your answer be different if you were the opposite sex. Transgenders are a perfect example, giving importance to both sexes in a way highlighting the need for both sex since both are highly dependent on each other. For example, “ya once something else n now something else”

Apart from the biological fact that women are weak by their physical appearance, I don’t see much difference in both. Also the gender specific roles are shoved in our faces by patriarchal, backward and conventional societies needs to be pointed out and answered.

But we forget the very simple logic and that is the fact that both genders exist, means they are both required to exist. And so are their importance.

So all you humans out there don’t churn your hearts to even accept discrimination. Feeling sorry for all those women and weak men who are being suppressed needs to stop. Even the men and women in backward castes are helpless and voiceless. So men not being the targets of discrimination doesn’t hold true. Because they are too troubled.

So, its our duties to teach our sons the things taught to daughter over ages. And also to teach daughters, the importance of work and to not associate with gender specific roles. Like, bread earner for men and cooking house hold chores for women are not and should not be prevalent any more.

Its more like genderless works. What say pals. Because doing chores doesn’t reduce masculinity nor increases the importance of women. Bringing in gender parity should be the aim of societies. So who is important should not be the hot topic, rather that everything and everyone under the sun is needed and hence important. What do you say pals.


COVID Times: Don’t Ignore Mental Health!



An atmosphere of fear, gloom has surrounded all of us as… India is battling with second wave of coronavirus. We are witnessing overflowing crematorium, cries for oxygen beds, ICUs, Twitter exploding with SOS calls, etc. Ever since the pandemic has started, the entire situation of the world has been changed and it’s taking a toll on the mental health of all of us as well.

Beating anxiety in the hard times of COVID-19 is very important. People are dealing with the loss of their loved ones and are becoming financially week. It’s very distressing to see to that most of the social media is filled with the posts that are showing the worst face of the country – people running hospital to hospital for the beds and the scarcity of oxygen, etc., On an overall note, it’s a very scary situation but at the same time, most of the people are recovering.

Coping up with the situation is quite important. Acceptance is the key to deal with the current situation. Knowing the actual truth is important. Those who have tested positive for COVID-19 should trust the doctor who is treating him or her. This is not the time to figure out the blame, it’s time to give positive messages which is very important for the collective well being.

We suffer more from imagination than the reality. Those who have been affected with the disease shouldn’t get panic and must face the disease courageously. There are clear cut indications – Those with mild symptoms, (loss of smell, taste, light fever) and asymptomatic can easily be managed at home. Such patients can be well taken care with oral tablets and best monitoring system. It is important to have a Pulse Oximeter that gives us oxygen saturation levels and thermometer.

People who have got moderate or serious symptoms like the levels of oxygen getting down by more than 3% than base level then they should get admitted into the hospital.  A face mask is not a style wear, it’s should be above your nose and below the chin, keep a distance, sanitise your hands. If we adapt and adopt all these patterns, we will be able to deal the situation. The impact of today is felt tomorrow.

Exercise for atleast 25 to 30 minutes per day and avoid junking on pizzas, burgers and fried foods. Avoid alcohol and nicotine. Online meditation, yoga, music, playing with your dear ones online can just keep you mentally strong. Sleep well, do some breathing exercises or can go for simple spirometer. Spiritual behaviour does have its role. If you are struggling just speak your mind out and go for a help. It’s ok to not to feel ok.

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Few Tips To Discipline Your Teenager



When your child reaches the age of adolescence, your parenting role is likely to change. You may have to discover new ways to be in sync with your children who are in teens.

Teenage is the time when children want to explore new things and it is the phase that decides their future. So, it is very important for the parents to guide them to make a better version of themselves.

The meaning of ‘Disciplining a teen’ is different – Some parents trust their children to the core whereas some parents always keep an eye on them and try to control them. There is nothing in both the ways but there are a few pros and cons in these approaches. Here are a few tips to discipline teenagers in a correct manner.

Typical teenage behaviour:
Adolescence can be a tumultuous time for teens as they change physically, emotionally, and socially. When they are young, they would like to share every detail with you but as they grow, friends and romantic relationships play a pivotal role in their life. They would love to spend time with their peers and also wants more privacy.

  • Keep some limits on your children. If they cross the limits despite repeated reminders, it’s time to act, they deserve to be grounded.
  • Don’t take away the privileges of the children without explaining them. If you don’t explain them, it would lead to false assumptions and strong protests from your teenager.
  • It is always important to keep some rules. It is okay even if they break the rules some times, but it continues, let them understand that parent’s love and affection can’t be taken for granted.
  • Experience is the best teacher. Sometimes, don’t take the side of your teenager for their mistakes, let them face the consequences of their actions. However, make sure your child learns a valuable life lesson out of the experiences, but it continues, let them understand that parent’s love and affection can’t be taken for granted.
  • Never ever issue commands, tell them in a soothing manner.
  • Give some responsibilities to your teenager and give them a chance to correct their mistakes.

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Five Tips To Make Your Little One Listen To You!



It is not an easy task to make your little one listen to you, isn’t it? A big yes. A mother has to deal with tantrums, aggression, mood swings, screaming of their kids. Dealing with all these is a difficult task. Here are five tips that will help you in dealing with your toddlers.

Give short and crisp instructions:

Although you may want your toddler to do a lot of things, it’s best to give them one instruction at a time and keep your instructions short and sweet. It is all known knowledge that toddlers have short attention spans and giving them many orders will be a waste of time.

Speak Calmly:

It is quite normal for a toddler to not to pay attention to what you say and as a parent, you may get frustrated. But be calm when speaking with your little one. Toddlers struggle with sudden bursts of anger and frustration. Reacting with similar emotions to the little one does not fix the problem and it only makes them react in a more aggressive manner and it just causes them to respond similarly.

Spend some quality time together:

It is an important thing to spend some quality time with your little one. Kids always observe you and you are their role model. So, try to talk with them in a cool manner, play games with them, have meals together. This will increase toddlers’ communication skills and also improves listening skills.

Have an eye to eye contact:

When speaking to your toddler, particularly if you want them to listen to you. You sit, or lie next to them and talk while looking into their eyes. As a result, your toddler will have your full attention and will pay attention to what you have to say.

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